Giving: Rx for Better Health
“You have got to be out of your mind” was a sentence Isabella was
getting used to hearing. Friend after friend rolled her eyes as she told
them of her plans. Isabella was 80 years old, for God’s sake, and no
amount of eye rolling was going to dissuade her. Even if her friends
were moving into assisted living facilities, she was building a new home
in Montecito and giving it to her favorite charity. No strings attached.
Although her friends told her that the move and overseeing the
construction would be the death of her, Isabella out lived the friends that
poo pooed her philanthropic adventure. She lived a happy, healthy life in
her Monetico home for 10 years. Her vision, spirit and wish to remain an
anonymous live on since her home is now used as a retreat center.
Volunteering is good for you. Science is beginning to discover that are
concrete physical, and emotional benefits to giving to others. Perhaps, you
have a vague notion that volunteering is “good for the soul” but have
little, if any, concrete evidence that philanthropy could be good for your
health. In More Give to Live, Douglas Lawson cites research that
shows how helping others leads to enhanced health and emotional well-being.
Numerous studies report that those involved in ongoing volunteer programs
have an enhanced immune system, improved cardiovascular circulation as well
as better sleep patterns. Emotionally those involved in philanthropic work
sense of control over one’s life and circumstances, increased ability to
cope with crisis as well as stronger feelings of personal satisfaction,
compassion and empathy.
The Helper’s High.
You may have just
had a brush with ‘Helper’s High’ yourself.
How do you feel when you finish a long run or a tough workout? Until the
pain sinks in you probably feel fantastic. Strenuous exercise releases
endorphins. That release creates an elated feeling known as the runners
high. Have you ever left a day of working with your favorite good cause with
more energy than you began with? That could be due to a similar endorphin
response.
A charity in New
York City recently conducted a survey of 3,300 volunteers. Many experienced
feelings of euphoria while being involved in their service project. The
volunteers compared the experience to the runner's high - when a person runs
and exerts, but instead of feeling more stressed, one feels more relaxed and
joyous.
Giving makes you
feel better. It may be a key factor in living longer as well. Dr. Stephanie
Brown and her colleagues at the Institute for Social Research at the
University of Michigan conducted an important study recently. Dr. Brown
discovered and her team tracked 423 older couples over a 5 year period. The
people who reported giving no support to others were more than twice as
likely to die during the five years of the study as those who helped others.
The simple act of giving to neighbors, a spouse, relative or friends gave
people a 50% better chance of living longer. Her study gives clear evidence
that giving is good for your health.
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